From Pressure to Peace: 6 Ways Prayer Helps Christian Moms Stop People-Pleasing and Find Peace
/“Obviously, I’m not trying to win the approval of people, but of God. If pleasing people were my goal, I would not be Christ’s servant.” -Galatians 1:10
People-pleasing feels like a trap that we can’t escape.
We lose ourselves in trying to make our grown kids happy. We become small. Resentment builds, and then our relationships feel tense. We wonder why we’re tired and discontent.
Prayer is the way we can step away from pleasing.
As we commune with God through everyday conversation of talking and listening for His voice, we are infused with His strength.
When we bow low, the Sovereign Lord is allowed to rule and reign in every situation. We exchange our weakness and are infused with power to act differently.
Our perspective shifts when we talk to God, and we desire to please Him more than our family. The Holy Spirit enables us to set boundaries and honor God with our surrendered hearts.
Six Ways Prayer Helps You Stop Pleasing and Find Peace
1. It Refocuses Your Heart
People-pleasing puts others’ opinions at the center. Prayer puts God at the center. When a mom prays instead of overthinking how to keep everyone happy, she’s reminded that God is ultimately in control, not her.
As you talk to God, you are reminded to focus on eternal perspectives and not get caught up in the earthly pursuit of pleasing others. Your goal is to honor God with your relationships. This looks like boundaries, courage, and learning to stand up for yourself.
"Think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth." -Colossians 3:2
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